I will never forget last Wednesday, September 3rd,
2015. At 11:45a that morning my phone rang simultaneously with Nathan’s phone.
I was in Smiths Station, AL evaluating a child and Nathan was at work in
Birmingham. It was Elyse, our adoption case worker calling from Oregon. After
her usual cheerful greeting, Elyse said, “Kameron, Nathan, this is your referral phone
call.”
Oh!
My!
Goodness!
I am not even going to try to employ enough adjectives to
tell you how we felt when Elyse told us about our child. Despite my flair for
the dramatic, I still can’t do it justice. She emailed us paperwork on the
child so that we could have a few moments to ourselves – we were both getting
emotional. I commandeered an office computer to open up my email and, with
Nathan in Birmingham, we simultaneously stared in wonder at our child for the
first time. By the way, it’s a little girl!!! (Amelia called it months ago!)
The feeling of seeing her for the first time was the exact
same feeling I had when I saw Henry and Amelia for the first time. We had been
preparing and hoping for this call for 2.5 years, but it didn’t diminish our
wonder and joy . I think our hearts grew a size that day. I can’t stop looking
at her picture and checking the time in Ethiopia and wondering what our new
child is doing at that very moment.
Of course, waiting up to this point has been challenging,
but there is a real difference between waiting and WAITING ON SOMEONE TO
ARRIVE!
While we are grateful
and excited and celebrating about receiving our referral, we are ever mindful
that our joy has been brought about by someone else’s pain, and we hope that
you will join us in praying not only for the children in orphanages around the
world, but for their birth mamas and daddies, too. I wouldn’t presume to
imagine their stories…
According to Dove, we are not allowed to share any specific
information about our child until later in the process, but will share updates
as we are able. Believe us when we say that we would be shouting it from the
rooftops if we could!
We still have quite a bit of waiting on various governmental
parties stateside and in Ethiopia before our first trip to Addis Ababa can be
scheduled. This could be anywhere from 6-9 months away. After a week there
for the first visit, we will return home for six to eight weeks before we take
our second trip and bring her home!
In the meantime…
Today we are mailing our final and most sizeable payment to
date - $15,200 - and with that comes our final fundraising endeavor. When we
started this process 2.5 years ago, we bought a 1,000 piece puzzle in anticipation
of our final fundraiser, with a special image to hang in our new child’s room.
For each $10 donation we receive, we will put a puzzle
piece in place with your name, or name of your choice, written on the back.
For example, if you donate $10, one puzzle piece will have your name on it. If
you donate $20, two pieces will have your name on it, etc. We will be taking
pictures of the back of the puzzle as it is assembled (the names side), and
when it is completed we will turn it over and show you what we made together!
When the puzzle is
finished, we will frame it in glass on both sides and hang it in our child’s
bedroom as a permanent reminder of all the love and support that helped bring her to us.
In order to buy a puzzle piece, please click on the yellow “Donate” button on the right side of our blog. Under the donation amount, you
should see “Special Instructions for the Seller.” Click on that, and a text box
will come up. Please write the name that would like for us to write on the back
of your puzzle piece, and we will receive that information when we receive your
donation.
Thank you from the bottom
of our now-larger hearts for all of your love, prayers and support. We can’t
wait to share more information with you as the process unfolds!
Please continue pray for all five us during this
journey.
In God’s Grace,
Kameron, Nathan, J. Henry, Amelia and our New Little
Girl!
So very excited for your family! Can't wait to learn more about your daughter in the coming months. Thanks be to God for the way He is enlarging your hearts (and enlarging your family). Blessings to the Cardens - party of 5!
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